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(#1) Her Messiness Is About To Be A Dealbreaker
From Quetzel:
"You're a slob and part of the reason this relationship hasn't moved forward is because I can't see myself moving in with you until you change." -
(#2) This Guy Wishes He Could Tell His Girl Where She Should Direct Her Anger
From Tomhs6:
"When she's mad at something that has absolutely nothing to do with me, to please not take her anger out on me." -
(#3) They Just Aren't Sexually Compatible And It's Killing Him
From pointeraser:
"That she's an awesome person and I know how much she loves me and [how] I mean to her but our sexual incompatibility is just killing me little by little each day."
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(#4) This Might Take The Cake
From condude:
"To a previous SO, your positive traits are common, and your negative traits are rare." -
(#5) Her Laziness Is Making Him Miserable
From lazurus_effected:
"That her laziness forces me to work twice as hard, and that I often feel that I miss out on opportunities to improve myself because I’m tending to the stuff she refuses to do.
"I cook (if I don’t cook she will expect me to go get food for her and if I don’t she will just eat snacks and junk food which leaves me cooking for myself anyway). I clean the house (if I don’t clean it she will spend my money to pay someone else to clean it when I’m not home). She won’t run errands by herself so I have to drive her around so she can go to Target or whatever and she berates me when I tell her I’m too busy, as if my time is less valuable.
"Actually writing this down makes me hate myself more for staying with her so long."
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(#6) He's Trying To Be Cool But Doesn't Love How Much She Drinks
From OverthinkingMachine:
"I actually don't like it when she goes out with her coworkers. Part of it stems from the fact that I feel like she has guy coworkers that want her, but the main reason is a mix of that and how she can get a bit too drunk. It hasn't happened often, but while we have been seeing each other, there were three occasions where she drank way too much and ended up blacking out. Thankfully, though, each time she had some good girl friends with her that ended up taking care of her."The first time I ever felt this way was actually a year ago on her birthday. Then, two of her guy coworkers ended up meeting up with her and her girl friends. They ended up buying her way too many drinks and I was supposed to meet up with her. We were texting and she was telling me where to go, but somewhere along while I was on my way, they changed locations and she was already too drunk to text me and I ended up not meeting up with them anymore. With her bday coming back up, I'm nervous this is going to happen again."
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(#7) She's Not Over Your Emotional Affair And She Probably Will Never Be
From OOohno:
"That as much as I want to stay with him, I don't think I can get over his emotional affair. I'm trying but I am sometimes mean to him (often without realizing it a first) because I'm still mad about the whole thing. F*ck me, right?" -
(#8) She's Leaving You As Soon As She Can
From binkerfluid:
"As soon as I make enough money to make you go away... so my child can still have a good life... you are gone."You are a horrible black hole of a person and knowing you has made me worse of a person."
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(#9) This Is Weirdly Sweet
From YoraffeYoraffe:
"You weren't my first choice. But you were the right choice." -
(#10) She Doesn't Actually Want To Do A Long Distance Relationship
From grandsupremechampion:
"That I don't know how well I'll be able to handle a long distance relationship if he gets a job far away when he graduates. But I don't want him to stay here because of me." -
(#11) This Guy's Gal Is Really Not Doing It For Him Down There
From luker_man:
"It's easy for me to orgasm from oral. I just never have with you." -
(#12) He Wishes He Swiped Left
From slanid:
"If I could go back in time three years ago and swiped left on Tinder I f*cking would. I wish I never met you. Don’t even want to be friends with you." -
(#13) He Needs To Hear The Words "I Love You"
From anferny08:
"As much as she tries to show that she loves me, it's not enough for me unless I can hear it said explicitly - unprompted. Until then I can't trust her or buy in fully." -
(#14) Her Health Problems Are Becoming His Problems
From i_am_chris_dorner:
"I want to go out and have fun and adventure and be crazy with you, and I can't because you're sick. Sometimes I think about a life with someone else, but I'll never let you know because your illness isn't your fault, and I don't want you to blame yourself. Sometimes I wish I was with someone else, and I'm terrified that my life will be unfulfilled with you, but I'm never going to leave, because I know how badly that would hurt you, and I'm afraid that your life would be worse off if I wasn't here." -
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(#16) He's Afraid To Tell Her Exactly What Type Of Porn He Watches
From mercinary909:
"She knows I watch porn, but I don't think she'd approve of my particular kinks, so I'm trying to find out how to tell her gently.
"It's especially important for her to know that just because I like it in porn doesn't mean I like it in real life or would want to try it, and it is purely fantasy and in no way real."
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(#17) It's About To Be Over If She Doesn't Change This One Thing
From TacosArePeopleToo:
"That her anxiety and lack of desire for improving herself is going to cause me to end things soon."
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(#18) She Wants Babies
From everysingletimegirl:
"That I've had babies on my brain way more than I care to admit lately." -
(#19) He Needs Way More Sex Than That
From JamesA95:
"That I miss our sex life when we first started dating. For the duration of this year sex has been all about her. She's happy to receive oral but doesn't want to give it. The sex itself is good it's just the oral side of things.
"Also I'd like us to have sex more than once a week. I felt like every time I stayed at her [place] in the beginning we always had sex but now not so much."
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(#20) He'd Like Her To Lose Some Weight Already
From Hambamwam:
"I want to ask my girlfriend of three months to lose weight with me. Obviously being fat isn't ideal, and I'm not exactly in the best condition myself. She's very sensitive about her weight, so it's a difficult question to ask. Plus it's only been a few months, not nearly long enough to ask her to change."It's not a deal breaker for me or anything, and I still find her attractive, but sometimes it's hard to push past."
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(#21) His Hairy Butt Really Grosses Her Out
From Vittra666:
"That I want him to lose weight and go back to how he looked last year. I still love him and I still find him sexy and attractive but sometimes his weight can just be a real turn off. He also has a chronic case of plumbers crack and won't wear his boxers higher to prevent it. He has a hairy bum too. I wish he'd make an effort to look more put together." -
(#22) She Knows It's Just A Fling But Wishes It Could Be More Than That
From Anonymous:
"I know this is just a fling during our last semester at college and we'll probably never see each other after graduation but there are days when I think I could spend the rest of my life with you."
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(#23) He Doesn't Think Sweatpants Are An Appropriate Everyday Outfit
From AtTheMercyOfCersei:
"There’s a very fine line between being comfortable in a relationship i.e. wearing something more casual when you go out because you really aren't trying to impress anyone and just flat out letting yourself go."
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(#24) She Doesn't Like His Promiscuous Past
From turndownfordaniel:
"I wish he didn't have such an... extensive romantic history. Which is unbelievably hypocritical."It just makes me insecure and even though we love and are committed to each other happily and unquestionably, it just really f*cking sucks to keep bumping into ex girlfriends."
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(#25) Seriously, He's Got To Lose Weight
From EmpressLeo:
"You're fat and I'm not as physically attracted to you as I once was. You're too content with a mediocre life and I can't see that keeping me around." -
(#26) He's Worried A Former Prostitute Habit Will Come Back To Haunt Him
From alextico24:
"That I used to have a borderline addiction to uh... paid company. It disgusts me that I ever had that habit and I'm almost positive she'd end things if she found out."
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Communication is the bridge of emotional maintenance between husband and wife. Marriage requires mutual understanding and communication to maintain. Long-term lack of communication is bound to have a qualitative impact on the relationship between husband and wife, but it is normal that everyone keeps something as secret and can not tell significant others, although they try all the ways to speak out, but failed.
Harmonious communication will not only make the relationship more stable but also make people feel safe. The random tool lists 26 things people try to share with their significant others, but do not dare to say.
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