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(#1) When His Life Is Better Because You're In It
From Redditor /u/341gerbig:
When my life is actually improved by her being around.
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(#2) When He Can't Get You Out Of His Head
From Redditor /u/Mikepod:
When I start to catch myself thinking about her at random times of my day and use any chance I get to bring up her name in a conversation, that's when I know I'm falling for someone and want something more.
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(#3) When He Abandons His Filter Around You
From Redditor /u/Greyfeld:
When I feel like I can be myself around her. I've had friends where I didn't have to worry about filtering what I say or do around them, because I know they're not going to judge me. That's the same kinda thing I like in a woman I'm dating, and when I get that feeling, that's the point where I know I want to lock it down.
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(#4) When He Makes An Effort To Talk To You
From a deleted user:
If they are really engaged when talking to you, text you without you texting them first and hang around you more than others when you're out with a group I'd say there's a good chance [they like you].
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(#5) When He Cares About Your Opinion Of Him
From Redditor /u/Xalwine:
For me, if I go out of my way to talk to you, or do favors it usually means I like you to some degree. If I say stupid things and then make an "I can't believe I said that" face, it means that I care about your opinion of me. If I roughhouse a bit, it means I want to touch you in some way and I am reverting to 3rd grade and want you to notice me.
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(#6) When He Wants To Hear About Your Problems
From Redditor /u/ArtisanVirgil:
Mutual vulnerability. When it goes from just two people interested into the broad versions of each other, to two people who would start discussing less pleasant things. When I realize I want to help a girl vent for the day, when I want to listen to menial problems that do add up; and when she seems to want to do the same. Not that love should be about problems, just that we go from being attracted and wanted each other to caring about each other.
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(#7) If He Introduces You To His Friends
From Redditor /u/prodigy2throw:
If you meet my friends you know it’s real.
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(#8) When He Loses All Sense When You're Around
From Redditor /u/menace64:
When I'm an awkward bumbling mess whenever you're in the room but everybody always talks about how witty and cocky I am. I am only confident in myself when it absolutely doesn't matter.
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(#9) When They Truly Enjoy Your Company And Opinions
From Redditor /u/mrsummerlover:
When I take an active interest in what they like and ask them to spend time with me alone doing things we are mutually interested in. I contact them regularly, just to chat even if we do not have the opportunity to hang out. I ask for their opinions on stuff because I value what they have to say.
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(#10) When He Is Excited And Nervous Around You
From Redditor /u/hsv0505:
I go from the mindset of, "She has to impress me," to "I'm bloody nervous and excited to see her." Can't shake her from your mind, any excuse to bring her up in conversation, wanting to do menial boring things with her.
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(#11) When He Sacrifices For You
From Redditor /u/treej_314:
If I find myself willing to make sacrifices for her as far as relationship stuff goes. For example, I'm not a big fan of distance relationships but if I'm willing to make the sacrifice for her, I know the feelings are real to me.
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(#12) When He Doesn't Hold Anything Back From You
From Redditor /u/Sharkn91:
For me, it was determined by one tiny moment, and a huge revelation.
Anything about myself that I was afraid of sharing with someone, I was not afraid to share with her. Any part of me that I thought someone else might reject or mock, she embraced. It happened before I even knew it. But when it did, and I realized what was happening, I knew I would never let her go. I knew from that very instant that I didn't want her to be just a girlfriend; and two months ago, I proposed to her.
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(#13) When You're The Center Of His Attention
From Redditor /u/Death_proofer:
When in a group situation we usually make sure they are hearing everything we or someone else is saying, like almost everything you say is directed at just them. Also, if some one says something funny we will usually look at the girl we like first while laughing.
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(#14) When You're The First One He Resurrects In An RPG
From Redditor /u/VictoriousMonk:
When the entire party gets wiped in the dungeon except me, I always [resurrect] her first.
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(#15) If He Changes His Social Media Relationship Status
From Redditor /u/Mysta02:
Wanting to continue dating is the trigger for me. I changed my Facebook status after the second date with my current girlfriend. We connected and were dating, so we were in a relationship. I went on three dates with previous girl and called it off.
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If the person you are just starting out with seems to be going well, you may start to wonder if they are really interested in a long-term relationship. Whether it is a boy or a girl, they will use some small actions to imply that the other party wants a serious relationship. However, some people tend to ignore these small details because of the first impression.
It is common to speculate and look for signs that they are as happy as you and interested in a lasting relationship. The random tool shares 15 things you should notice that mean your dater wants a serious relationship.
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