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(#6) You Would Rather Go Out With Friends
Of course, a person should put time away for friends. Having a life outside of a relationship is important. But if you're making plans with friends five nights a week and ignoring your significant other, or not giving them enough time, then chances are, you're looking for a way out.
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(#2) You Always Have To Be Right
Are you more concerned with being right – thereby making your partner wrong – than with actually getting to the truth of the matter? If you're in an argument with your significant other and always feel the need to be right, chances are, there is not going to be any progress and growth within the relationship.
No one on the planet earth is right 100% of the time. That's just a plain fact.
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(#4) You Never Really Forgive Or Forget
Are you holding something over your partner that happened six months ago? Maybe he or she screwed up, but you talked it out and they apologized. If you absolutely can't let things go, especially small things, then you're probably emotionally looking for a way to exit a relationship.
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(#12) You Stay In Touch With Exes
Of course, there are instances when an ex was a friend before a relationship and you want to continue a friendship with them. For the most part, however, if you're in a relationship, your partner probably feels threatened if you're staying in touch with your exes.
Think about why you bother to stay in touch with the past? Are you hoping that something crops up again? Are you using your ex as some kind of safety net?
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(#9) You Lie... A Lot
You get to the point where you just lie about everything. You fib about where you were and who you were with; you lie about what you had for lunch; you even claim you didn't finish that Netflix show without them.
If lying becomes the norm – because it's just easier – ask yourself why you're fibbing? Do you want to get caught in a lie so you can get out of the relationship? Or are you just lying because it's more convenient than telling the truth?
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(#8) You Cancel Plans Regularly
People don't like to get canceled on. It's disappointing and can make a person feel unworthy. Sure, emergencies happen, and you may need to cancel plans. However, if canceling becomes the rule rather than the exception, then chances are you're looking for a way out of a relationship.
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To be honest, everyone needs emotional support. That is to say, we need more emotional support than usual in difficult times, we all desire to be understood, supported, loved, and accepted. Sometimes it is okay to take the initiative to seek a breakthrough in a relationship, there is no problem, but some things may have an unintentional impact on the relationship.
One should be able to live independently, endure loneliness, and manage one's emotions well in order to maintain a healthy relationship. How we express our needs has a lot to do with our personality. The random tool lists 13 signs you are destroying your relationship inadvertently.
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