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(#5) He Fell In Love With Someone Else On A School Trip
From Reddit user vipros42:
"Was living with my girlfriend at university. Towards the end of my degree I had a field trip abroad and a good friend and I realized we maybe would have liked to be more than that. Got home, said to my gf that I wasn't sure things were working and I needed some time. We had our finals to do and I didn't want to screw those up for her so didn't dump her out right . Meanwhile the other girl and I got closer and a few things happened.
Eventually, after our exams were done I broke up with my gf, adamantly denying there was someone else. Now, 12 years later me and the other girl have been married for five years, and my ex is married to a woman."
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(#3) He Cheated Because He Fell In Love At First Sight
From Reddit user optimaloutcome:
"I was young, 19. I had been with a girl for a year when my parents decided I needed to pay rent, so I found a roommate and got an apartment. Day one, I go to the office to turn in my walk through paperwork. The girl in the office made my heart skip. She made me a believer in the idea of love at first sight.
She moved in across from my apartment a couple weeks later and we started to hang out. One night we slept together. The next day I broke up with my girlfriend. Me and new girl talked and we both wanted to be together.
She moved in with me a month later. That was 17 years ago. She's currently asleep upstairs next to our daughter."
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(#15) He Kept Cheating With His Significant Other's Friend Because He Didn't Want To Ruin The Two Girls' Friendship
From Reddit user CaptainLeviA:
"I feel like I have no excuses to offer for the reason I cheated on my girlfriend. I was 18 at the time and had been with my girlfriend for three months, and during that time I became close to one of her other friends. Soon I found myself happier with her friend and I started wanting to spend more time with her than with my gf. The reason why I cheated instead of breaking up with my gf was because they were friends for a long time and I didn't want to be the reason as to why their friendship ended. In addition to this I didn't want her to look like a [person] who just moves in on her friend's boyfriend. Overall it seemed like a tricky situation for both of us but we were young and didn't know how to navigate the situation properly."
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(#9) Her Cheating Partner Enticed Her With Settlers Of Catan and Mozzarella Sticks
From Reddit user littlelighteninggirl:
"My ex-husband and I weren't even sleeping in the same room when I met my affair. Ex just wasn't interested in sex - and it was causing so many fights because I was so unsatisfied.
I met my affair on WoW, and we knew each other for about a year and had never flirted or anything like that. One day I found out that he had Settlers of Catan and mozzarella sticks... and lived an hour and a half away. I hopped in the car and drove down and we hit it off really well.
He didn't know I was married at the time. I really needed to get laid... it had been about six months. At least.
The affair never ended. Or I guess it officially ended when my divorce was finalized. He and I are married now and have been together for six years."
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(#10) He Cheated To Be With Someone Who Was Basically His Twin
From Reddit user RedPantyKnight:
"I just met someone so much better for me. I met someone that was basically my female twin and we hit it off instantly. I ended up breaking up with the girl I was with and dating her for 6 months. Turns out there's such a thing as [being] too much alike."
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(#2) His Boyfriend Abused Him And Accused Him Of Cheating So He Decided To Do What He Was Accused Of
From Reddit user Zarbi92 255:
"He kept accusing me of cheating all the time, beating me for it, would never believe me that I wasn't. For about a year he would do this, accuse me, beat me until he was satisfied with my punishment, and then tell me he forgave me for a week or so. After a year or so of this I started getting emotionally connected to a friend of his sister and sister's wife. We never slept together, kissed, or did anything physical. We didn't even talk about anything physical. But he took me on a few dates. I figured since I'm being punished for it and he won't believe me that I'm not, I might as well just do it. He also informed me that I was being abused and that good men do exist. I still feel awful about it. The fact that I knew what I was doing was wrong but at the same time, those dates were amazing and gave me the confidence to leave my ex...
Also it turned out he was cheating the whole time."
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Many people do not have a clear definition of infidelity, and they greatly underestimate the probability of a partner betraying, even though sometimes they themselves are not loyal to their lovers enough. Infidelity is not rare. Once a partner is found to be unfaithful, it can be heartbreaking and no one can talk about it. Therefore, many psychologists suggest that people need to talk about infidelity in a more open way.
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