Random Moment People Realized Their Friends Don't Like Them (15 items)

• (#1) Their Friends Had Nothing Nice To Say About Them

  From Redditor /u/buttwiped:

  Went to a sleepover when I was about 12-13 y/o. It was for my best friends birthday. They said “let’s sit in a circle and list our favorite things about each other!” sounded wholesome, so I sat in the circle. When my turn came around, everyone in the circle had nothing positive to say about me. “buttwiped, you’re actually really annoying and we don’t like you”.... my best friend looked sad for me but didn’t say anything... damn kids are mean.
• (#2) They Just Had A Feeling That They Weren't In On The Plans

  From Redditor /u/Sabrina-K:

  When they start making plans with "the group" while youre standing right there and you just know youre not invited.
• (#3) Their Friends Never Visited Them In The Hospital

  From Redditor /u/ElPolloDiablo07:

  Got pretty sick and was in the hospital for a week. Not one of my friends in a small group (of supposedly close friends) reached out to see if I was getting better. They never visited, didn't even so much as get a text from them. We hung out almost daily for the past two years and they knew I was in the hospital.

  When I finally got better I decided it was time to get some new friends.
• (#4) Their Friends Never Actually Spoke To Them

  From Redditor /u/SkyBlueHyacinth:

  I was sitting at the lunch table with them and they were talking. It then dawned on me that they never talked to me during lunch or reached out to me during break. I was basically following them around like a stupid lost puppy all the time while they couldn’t care less.
• (#5) Their Best Friend Didn't Invite Them To Their Birthday Party

  From Redditor /u/spitfyrr:

  Back in highschool, I thought I was best friends with a girl on my sports team for 3-4 years. Through thick and thin I've been there for her. I supported her through devere depression, bullying, abusive home life, multiple suicide attempts, giving her my clothes when her dad periodically burned hers, bringing her food from my house, splitting my bus tokens so she didn't have to walk home from practice late evenings (you have to qualify for them), letting her wash her clothes and bathe at my house so she didn't get ridiculed, stuck up for her during a time she nearly got expelled wrongfully, and just being a good friend to her in anyway I could.

  Long story short, senior year, between classes when I asked her where did she want my mom to take her out to eat for her birthday this year (my mom was doing this the past few years), she told me she was going to out with 'A' and 'B' this year because "I only want to hang out with friends, but I'll see you on Monday."

  I didn't even know what to say and stared blankly at her, then went to class then practice. I felt hurt and was so salty that McDonald's could've used me for their french fries for a long time after that. I haven't spoken to her since.
• (#6) They Were Excluded From Office Social Activities

  From Redditor /u/AlanS181824:

  Been at my job almost a year. Noticed on snapchat everyone was together for some drinks, managers, staff who started decades ago, staff who started weeks ago...

  Everyone.

  Except one other person. I texted her out of curiosity about it and she responded with "yeah, they asked me but i couldn't go".

  I tried to laugh it off but man did that hurt.

  I always thought I had a good rapport with my coworkers but i wonder now am i just being tolerated by them.
• (#7) Their Friends Lied About Cancelling A Group Vacation And Went Anyway

  From Redditor /u/flyingblindOR:

  They all told me they had canceled their plans to go to a lake over the weekend, I found out they actually went, and had replaced me with someone else through their snap stories.
• (#8) A Mutual Friend Told Them That Their Group Had Abandoned Them

  From Redditor /u/IcedMercury:

  I became friends with a group of women my own age, mid 20s, through a mutual friend we all shared and I thought we were getting along really well. We would meet up at least once a week and do dinner and movies at one of our homes, I was invited to weddings, hosted baby showers, we all belonged to the same social media group and chatted constantly. Then gradually I started noticing I was no longer being invited to things. I would show up at an event and be totally out of the loop as far as major life changes were concerned and no one would bother telling me anything or filling me in. I then found out through that mutual friend that the group had gotten tired of me and instead of saying anything they had created a new social media group without me and were just waiting for me to take the hint and leave them alone. So I did. I stopped trying to stay connected and just let the four years of friendship die.

  I saw them all at that mutual friend's wedding recently and tried to have a casual conversation, catch up and everything, but not a single one of them even looked at me or said a word to me. I felt really stupid and confused as I stood in a group with them but was completely ignored. I eventually wandered off.
• (#9) When Their Friend And Roommate Suddenly Told Them To Move Out

  From Redditor /u/KatanaAmerica:

  When the girl who I thought was my closest friend sent me a text message at 10pm out of the blue telling me to move out because she thought I didn't fit in and made her and her friends uncomfortable. Best part? We were in a foreign country, so without her + the group, I was completely alone.

  I later found out that the girl had a terrible reputation in her hometown + a bunch of people hated her so it actually wasn't me.
• (#10) They Were Always The Last To Find Out What Everyone Was Up To 

  From Redditor /u/bbandi7:

  You get the news last of what happened with the group members and you dont get an invitation from them, they only invite you when you invite yourself through them. Meaning that when they discuss the plans and you happen to be there so they must invite you. But i was always like that. This above was just a summary of what i experienced. Ive never had that kind of friend group that actually cared about me, so i never had an "oh shit" moment.
• (#11) Their Friends Only Liked Them For Their Boat

  From Redditor /u/Giddyup_88:

  Had a tangential friend group. They were fine people and I was new to the city. Bought a boat and all of a sudden we’re BEST FRIENDS. The immediate rise to central friend made me step back and go “yah no.” So when I took notice of when I wasn’t invited to normal day to day stuff in the group like concerts and dinners versus when the Thursday flurry of texts came in about the weekend on the boat. I distanced myself.
• (#12) Their Friends Wouldn't Be Excited When They Showed Up To Events

  From Redditor /u/3FE001:

  When I would show up to public places, like my apartment pool or nearby bars and see my "friends". They would be hardly excited and feign interest in what I was up to at the time. Oh and they'd act like I was invited but showed up late. Not the case and it hurt.
• (#13) They Restored A Boat With Their Friend, But Weren't Invited On The Maiden Voyage

  From Redditor /u/aft-backwards:

  I spent my free time over a fall and winter helping a friend restore a fishing boat (25’ish Mako). Sanding old rough fiberglass (this is agonizing work by the way, you have to have all of your skin covered, goggles, respirator, gloves or the fibers inbed in your skin.) Putting down new fiberglass. Sanding that smooth. Priming, painting, gel coating. Lacing a new canvas onto the T-top. Guess who didn’t get invited on the first trip. Yup. We don’t speak anymore.
• (#14) She Wasn't Invited To Girls Night

  From Redditor /u/Panic_inthelitterbox:

  My husband has longtime friends and they all work for the same company and are often out of town. The wives/girlfriends have gotten to know each other and for a while had regular girls nights ... the woman who planned them worked at the same place as I do, and would ask what I was up to each weekend as we did stuff at work. Girls nights were always planned after I had confirmed that I would be out of town taking care of my grandmother. I don’t know if it was truly on purpose or not, but it felt like it was.
• (#15) They Didn't Get A Going Away Party At Work

  From Redditor /u/sarasa3:

  I didn't get the little going away party at work. It's a silly thing, but it was a close, friendly workplace and when people would quit they'd set up cheap little themed decorations from the office printer and add some other funny stuff about the person that was leaving. I brought a cake and it was fine and I know my coworkers didn't dislike me, but I guess everyone sort of forgot about me because I'm not the most expressive person. I was sad I never got my themed decorations. I worked there for two years.

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