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(#1) You Nitpick Over Every Little Thing
There's a stray hair in the sink! You're driving too fast! I hate the way you eat corn! You're playing your music too loud! I told you to text me right after lunch!
No one wants to be ridiculed, put down, or called out over every little thing that they do. Constant nitpicking is one sure way to drive your partner away.
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(#11) You Go Through Your Partner's Phone
Think about the reasons why you're invading your partner's privacy by reading their text messages and rummaging through their phone. Is it because you don't trust them? Are you looking for a reason to leave and hoping to find one? Maybe you even want to get caught?
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(#4) You Never Really Forgive Or Forget
Are you holding something over your partner that happened six months ago? Maybe he or she screwed up, but you talked it out and they apologized. If you absolutely can't let things go, especially small things, then you're probably emotionally looking for a way to exit a relationship.
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(#2) You Always Have To Be Right
Are you more concerned with being right – thereby making your partner wrong – than with actually getting to the truth of the matter? If you're in an argument with your significant other and always feel the need to be right, chances are, there is not going to be any progress and growth within the relationship.
No one on the planet earth is right 100% of the time. That's just a plain fact.
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(#10) You Talk About Your Exes A Lot
Your current partner does not want to hear about the time you and your ex-boyfriend/ex-girlfriend vacationed in Hawaii. They don't want to know how you used to work through problems with your ex. If you're bringing up past relationships, you're heading down sabotage lane.
There are few, if any, circumstances where brining up an ex is appropriate. No one wants to be compared to some romanticized version of the past.
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(#6) You Would Rather Go Out With Friends
Of course, a person should put time away for friends. Having a life outside of a relationship is important. But if you're making plans with friends five nights a week and ignoring your significant other, or not giving them enough time, then chances are, you're looking for a way out.
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To be honest, everyone needs emotional support. That is to say, we need more emotional support than usual in difficult times, we all desire to be understood, supported, loved, and accepted. Sometimes it is okay to take the initiative to seek a breakthrough in a relationship, there is no problem, but some things may have an unintentional impact on the relationship.
One should be able to live independently, endure loneliness, and manage one's emotions well in order to maintain a healthy relationship. How we express our needs has a lot to do with our personality. The random tool lists 13 signs you are destroying your relationship inadvertently.
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