Random Signs People're Not So "Nice" (12 items)

• (#1) Nice Guys Feel Entitled To Certain Treatment

  Graffiti seen in Melbourne...#NiceGuys #RickandMorty pic.twitter.com/53G7RidpYj

  — �� Devan De Sade (@devandesade) December 11, 2017

   

  The most obvious sign of a Nice Guy is someone who doesn't understand why they're not rewarded with sex for doing something "good." Be it holding a door open for someone or driving a friend home when they're too drunk to drive, Nice Guys are obsessed with what you owe them for not leaning into their worst fantasies. There's no cosmic force that tallies up your good deeds in order to dish out an appropriate amount of rewards, and if you're doing something specifically because you want to be rewarded, they aren't actually good deeds. A popular unattributed quote sums it all up nicely: "Women are not vending machines that you put kindness coins in until sex falls out."
• (#6) Nice Guys Aren't Friends With Any Of Their Exes, Because They Are All "Crazy"

  When determining who's a nice guy and who's a Nice Guy, observe how they interact with their ex-girlfriends. If you bring up a Nice Guy's ex, he'll usually say something about how she's "crazy." This is a tell-tale sign of someone who's pretending to be nice to get what they want. Everyone has had a bad relationship, but most adults are friends with a few of their exes, or at the very least can talk about them in a civil manner. Staying friends after a breakup is a sign of maturity. If a guy can't even be civil with someone with whom he had a long-term relationship, you may want to rethink spending your own time with him. 
• (#7) Nice Guys Can't Take "No" For An Answer

  Even if you manage to go on a date (or two, or three) with someone, that person still doesn't owe you anything. Sometimes people don't gel, or they're in two different places in their lives, and that's that. If someone tells you that she doesn't want to see you again, the best thing you can do is accept that decision and get on with your life. Don't be pushy and promise the moon or turn into an angry douchebag; instead, just be chill for once in your life. Most Nice Guys do not have this ability and don't see how their transactional view of relationships is incredibly problematic.
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  (#12) Nice Guys Buy Into The (Imaginary) Jock V. Nerd Binary

  At some point, people began to believe the myth preached by '80s movies: that jocks and nerds exist in an eternal struggle for superiority. Nice Guys believe that the world is a giant high school where women are attracted to jocks and frat bros while sidelining anyone who isn't propping themselves up as an alpha male. This way of thinking is incredibly sad, and it shows that so-called Nice Guys believe that they need to play the victim in order to get anyone to pay attention to them. The truth of the matter is that there is no single way any person needs to be. You can be a jock (whatever that means) who is a nice person in the same way that a Nice Guy can be a complete douchebag. 
• (#8) They See Friendship As A Means To An End

  Tell me, how long is that neckbeard? pic.twitter.com/Ym2ihjI3RY

  — Punished Aqua (@Aquabased) October 28, 2017

   

  Nice Guys are notorious for bringing up the dreaded "friendzone." Unfortunately for them, the friendzone isn't a thing that actually exists. It's just called being friends. Is it really so bad that someone likes your personality enough to be friends with you? Instead of turning every interaction that you have with a woman into an attempt to weasel your way into some sex, why not try having a genuine conversation? Or just never talk to anyone again. 
• (#9) They Act Like Giant Babies

  One of the worst things about Nice Guys is how they don't do anything. They sit about and complain about how the world is unfair while they watch fedora reviews on YouTube and daydream about the women they'll never date. No one finds it attractive when a guy is stuck in a perpetual cycle of adolescence. It's fine if you like playing video games and eating queso alone, but there has to be something else to your personality than the fact that you act like a 13 year old. 

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