They take days to respond to your texts.
[ranking: 7]
Look, not everyone is good at texting, and some people are busy, so they take a while to get to their phone, but if it??s taking someone days to respond, it??s a safe bet that they??re occupied elsewhere on a level that wouldn??t allow you the attention or time you??re seeking.
Self proclaimed ??nice?? people.
[ranking: 11]
Anyone who has to claim to be a ??nice guy/girl?? or states things that would normally go without saying, like ??I hate drama?? should draw caution.
They??re rude to employees at places you go.
[ranking: 5]
Waiters at restaurants, cashiers when shopping, ushers at events - if someone is rude to these types of people, it says a lot about their character and the nightmare they might be in private.
They??re always too busy to make plans.
[ranking: 8]
Whether they outright say they??re too busy or they just seem to be constantly avoiding you, you??ve got to recognize that if a person wants to make time, they absolutely will. This is especially alarming if they only contact you at random for impromptu hangouts, because that??s an indicator that you??re one of multiple options, which is why they aren??t willing to commit a chunk of time to you in advance.
They??re not supportive of/bash your hobbies, goals or aspirations.
[ranking: 4]
This is pretty cut and dried. If someone doesn??t support your dreams or bashes the things you enjoy, then obviously there??s no real need to pursue or be involved in any type of relationship, much less a romantic one.
They constantly trash their exes.
[ranking: 10]
Not only is it concerning when someone is forever talking about their exes, it??s even further alarming when each of those exes was allegedly a terrible person. It??d be a coincidence for someone to continuously find and get romantically involved with problematic people, and it??s likely that they lack self-awareness, or simply choose to ignore their issues.
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