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  • Facebook Jealousy on Random Top Facebook Mistakes to Avoid After 1st Dates

    (#2) Facebook Jealousy

    After a first date, you start to wonder if you're the only potential paramour in your date's life. You start to see photos and comments on Facebook in a whole new light. When pictures are posted from a night when your date said they were too busy to see you, you start wondering just who the other people in those photos are. And why is there someone who always likes your date's statuses? Sure, they could just be friends, but why is this friend so involved in your date's life? 

    So you send them a message on Facebook, just to say hi. But they don't respond. So, you text them, just to see if they'll respond. But they don't. 

    So now you know they're getting snuggly with this stupid, serial status-liker, and you're reeling over all the things they're doing together that you're not. And after three days of questioning, obsessing, doubting, and obsessing again over whether or not your date is even interested in you, you meet up again with your date. You're trying to play it cool, but then you ask about this person on Facebook. They give you a vague answer, so you dig deeper. And deeper. And before you know it, your date confesses it's a close cousin and you've made yourself look like a complete a**.

    Now your chances of a second date are completely trashed, thanks to your jealousy from a couple of Facebook likes.

  • Sharing Too Much Info About Your Ex on Facebook on Random Top Facebook Mistakes to Avoid After 1st Dates

    (#10) Sharing Too Much Info About Your Ex on Facebook

    You’ve gone on a wonderful first date and avoided all the other mistakes listed here. Congratulations! But WAIT, your Facebook profile still has tons of comments and updates about your ex. How badly things ended. How much you still hate your ex. In fact, even as you're getting ready for this exciting first date, you can't resist posting another comment complaining about your former paramour.

    Even if your ex was truly a horrible person, now your potential new relationship knows that hook-up details, arguments, and any other interactions are fair game for your Facebook wall. So try and cut those out altogether and you should be ready to go out on a date with anyone of your choosing.

    Good luck!

  • Stalking Your Date's Family on Random Top Facebook Mistakes to Avoid After 1st Dates

    (#8) Stalking Your Date's Family

    Say that you’ve restrained yourself and not ogled every photo or followed every status update or comment. There’s still another way to obsess over your first date’s profile. And this isn't over. After all, there are so many other people that your date is connected to on Facebook: friends, family, classmates, and co-workers. You decide to reach out to some of them, telling yourself that there's nothing more natural than connecting with people on a social network. I mean, that's what they're for, right? 

    Except these are people who you have no other connection to besides a person you went out with once. There is no reason to friend them now.

    Think about it this way: If this were real life, would you start popping up at the grocery store to try to run into your date’s mom, or ask how his cousin’s job search is going? If the answer is no (and the answer should be no), then don’t do it on Facebook. Especially after one date. They'll tell your date about your strange friend request. And that's when you get unfriended by your date.

  • Desperate Comment Interactions on Random Top Facebook Mistakes to Avoid After 1st Dates

    (#6) Desperate Comment Interactions

    You may want to get the interest of one of your Facebook buddies. Maybe you went on one date and then nothing's happened since. Or maybe you're just hoping that they'll finally agree to go out with you because of your charmingly flirty interactions. Either way, you keep an eye out for status updates from your target and then do your best to reel them in. Whether the flirting is obvious or you try for an oh-so-casual comment along the lines of “You’re playing Call of Duty: Black Ops II this weekend? That’s so funny, me too,” these flirtation comment attempts are not as witty as you think they are.

    If this person wants to go on a first date, or continue any kind of a romantic relationship with you, they'll let you know. Otherwise, nothing you can say via a Facebook comment will change their minds. Keep it up and you'll just look like you're trying way too hard.

  • Following Everything Your Date Does On Facebook on Random Top Facebook Mistakes to Avoid After 1st Dates

    (#7) Following Everything Your Date Does On Facebook

    Say you’re already Facebook friends. After the date, you write a quick message saying how much you enjoyed it. So far, so good. But Facebook has decided to show you when your message has been read, so you know your date got it. When there isn’t an immediate reply, you begin freaking out. You then start tracking everything he or she is doing on Facebook until they respond. Yes, it sounds wild, but many people do it (both male and female). Starting to date someone you actually like is quite literally a hunt.

    Looking at companies, places, restaurants, and movies that your date has liked, you decide to like a few of the same things. After all, it shows your first date how much you have in common! Now when you have a second date, you'll have lots of things to talk about .

    Of course, what's actually going to happen is that they'll see you liking everything they've liked, and you'll just get blocked and unfriended, and there will never be a second date. Ever.

  • Friending Too Soon on Random Top Facebook Mistakes to Avoid After 1st Dates

    (#1) Friending Too Soon

    This is the worst. You just went on your first date and had an amazing time. You desperately want to see this person again. And you're sure your date feels the same way. After all, you were talking and laughing for hours! The minute your date is over, you whip out your smartphone and reach out to friend him or her on Facebook (or follow your date on Twitter). It’s the way of today’s social media-dominated world, right?

    Wrong. It was just one date. No matter how magical and rainbow-filled it was for you, maybe your date was bored out of their mind. You don’t know if you’ll ever see this person again. If you weren't already friends on Facebook, there's no reason to take that step now. Plus, now you’ve just given yourself something else to obsess over: “Why hasn’t my friend request been accepted? Why is it taking so long? Did they even see it?!”

    It’s even worse if your friend request is accepted, only for there to be no second date. Then you have to decide if and when to unfriend this person. Why put yourself in that situation? If you’re not already Facebook buddies, friending can wait.

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The first date will always leave us with unforgettable memories, and the sweet moments make people always aftertaste. Some people become so obsessed after dating--especially the first date--that they completely lose Facebook self-control. It is obvious that the worst thing you can do is to send people a Facebook friend request immediately after meeting someone you might be interested in.

Facebook is one of the most widely used social networks in the United States. People can learn more about each other on the private account page. The random tool shares 10 big Facebook mistakes all of us should avoid after the first dates.

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