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(#15) Lack Of Equality Was The Last Straw
From Redditor /u/Arya_kidding_me:
He hid a few Xanax addictions/withdrawals - forgave him.
He stole $4,000 from our joint savings that only I contributed to - forgave him.
He sexted and was trying to meet up with randoms, which made me realize I should probably leave.
But the thing that made me certain was when I realized he didn’t actually want an equal relationship. He expected me to shop, cook, clean, and be responsible for him for the rest of our lives. He pretended to want what I wanted for years, and I was dumb enough to believe his excuses on why he just couldn’t do it yet.
I demand and deserve a reasonably equal relationship! Divorce was one of the best things I ever did.
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(#3) Her Husband Adhered To Outdated Gender Roles
From Redditor /u/superslakher:
Out of nowhere, a year into being married, he said he wanted to join the Marine Corps. He also wanted me to drop out of law school, birth babies, take care of his mother, and a run a household all while he was deployed. Hard pass.
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(#6) He Was Overbearing During Pregnancy And Completely Absent As A Father
From Redditor /u/rusty0123:
When I had my first child. The pregnancy wasn't a surprise or an accident. We talked and planned. He got a little overbearing during the pregnancy, like insisting on breastfeeding without even discussing it with me. I put it down to new dad nerves, not knowing any better.
Turns out that was only the tip of the iceberg. He believed that children were completely and totally a wife's responsibility. He wouldn't change a diaper. He wouldn't pick up the baby when it cried. No way would he get up in the middle of the night. He expected me to work a full-time job, plus do all the childcare.
At that point, I was confused and appalled but I told myself he just needed time to adjust.
I realized how delusional I was when the baby got sick while he was on a fishing trip. The doctors thought baby had meningitis. So not just sick, but life-threatening sick. I called and asked him to come home. He refused. He'd paid for two more days of fishing. He didn't want to lose the money.
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(#13) He Lied About His Degree
From Redditor /u/murderousbudgie:
He lied about where he went to undergrad. I suspected it while the relationship was still going on, but after he moved out I found some of the stuff he left that included transcripts from a different university than he'd claimed. It wasn't even in the same country. I'm fairly sure most of the stories he told about his childhood were lies.
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(#4) She Had Multiple STDs
From Redditor /u/Notasupervillan:
A year in I found out she lied to [me] about getting an STD test. Turned out she had more than one STD, which somehow I tested clean for.
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(#1) She Found Out Her Boyfriend Had A Child
From Redditor /u/rtyjj:
About one year in he told me he was about to get full custody of his son. I didn't know he had a son.
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